• Jill Hinckley

8 Signs you may want to sign up with a matchmaker:

Updated: Oct 15, 2018

Have you been going out on endless first dates and feel they aren’t going anywhere? This is a common problem that singles of all ages run into. You may find it easy to get that first date, but the chemistry as a lifelong partner just isn’t there.

If online dating and blind dates that family and friends have set up aren’t working, it’s time to turn to professional matchmaking services. I specialize in connecting single people with diverse, yet compatible, backgrounds. It is my philosophy to stand true to the traditional essence of dating and to be there for you throughout the dating process. Here are eight signs you need matchmaking help:

1.You don’t have the time to meet someone new because of your demanding career

Does your successful career demand a lot of your time, leaving limited time to date? My matchmaking services help you cut out the wasted time of going on endless first dates. 

2.You have been misled by online dating profiles

Matches through online dating can sometimes seem like an endless “shopping” experience. The data that people add to profiles may not be entirely accurate, leaving matches to be unsuccessful. Because I meet with you in person and handpick potential partners that share similar interests, you don’t have to leave it up to a computer system to find your match.

3.You don’t enjoy stressful blind dates

It’s not easy to meet people for the first time, especially when there’s an expectation that you are looking for a lifelong partner. Your family and friends are looking out for your best interests, but they may not be looking closely into the compatibility of a potential partner. I interview all of my clients to ensure I have a clear idea of what you are looking for and who can share your lifestyle with you.

4.Your recent dates have not progressed to second dates

You just went on a first date and it went really well, so you thought. Whether you met this date from a family member, friend, through online dating or you randomly bumped into him or her and initially hit it off, there wasn’t much research into each person’s goals and interests. With my matchmaking services, you don’t have to worry about interviewing and poking around for their interests and life goals. I do the initial work for you.

5.You are not meeting people who share similar interests

Have you found yourself dating a certain “type” of person? This is where matchmaking services can be a great benefit to help you get out of this routine of meeting people who don’t share similar interests.

6.You live in a small New England town

I love living in New England, although some areas are very small, and my clients have told me it’s difficult to meet new people. My matchmaking services help you expand your network and meet new people who may live close but outside your circle of family and friends.

7.You travel often for personal or business reasons

Do you live a nomadic lifestyle, leaving limited time to get to know people in your community? I use my networking skills to focus on the personal and rewarding experience of introducing single people from my continually growing network.


8.You are recently divorced and are overwhelmed by the idea of dating again

Whether you are recently divorced or have been single for a while, it’s not easy to jump back into the dating pool. My personalized matchmaking services help you ease back into the dating world with me as your wing woman!

Jill Hinckley

Matchmaker and Owner of Hinckley Introductions